Mahara Wayman [00:00:05]:
Welcome to the art of badassery where I explore what it takes to live life on your own terms. Break free from the status quo and unleash your inner badass. Whether you're a rebel at heart or simply seeking inspiration to step outside your comfort zone, this podcast is for you. I'm your host Mahara Wayman and each week I dive into the stories, insights, and strategies of those who've mastered the art of badassery and are living life to the fullest. They smile when no one is lucky. Welcome to the Art of Badassery. My name is Mahara. I'm your host, and I'm really excited because I am having a guest come back for the second time.
Mahara Wayman [00:00:50]:
Please welcome Anna Campbell. She is a former corporate professional who bravely decided to ditch the expectations, the fears, and excuses that were holding her back to create a career and life on her own terms. Now a full time career coach and people consultant, Anna is passionate about helping others reclaim their lane, break free from limiting beliefs, and really design a life that's filled with happiness and fulfillment. So grab your favorite drink, get ready to be inspired by her journey, and, of course, her actionable insights for living like a badass. Anna, welcome back to the show. I can't wait to hear all about this transition that's happened recently.
Anna Campbell [00:01:31]:
Yeah. Hi, Mara. So nice to be back. I was listening to I think it was maybe a year ago, just over a year ago that we last spoke, and I was still in the corporate world at that point. And, obviously, now I am no longer in the corporate world. So a lot's changed in the last twelve months.
Mahara Wayman [00:01:49]:
So listen. Before we we get into the the juicy details, just give us a bit of background. How long have you wanted to be doing reclaim your lane fully?
Anna Campbell [00:01:59]:
Yeah. I came up with the idea for reclaim your lane in 2020. So coming up to four, five years ago. So it's been a it's been a good while.
Mahara Wayman [00:02:11]:
What took you so long?
Anna Campbell [00:02:12]:
Oh, good question. What took me so long? There's a couple of things. I think the override okay. Mindset mindset blocks that were in the way, and I can probably tell you what those are. You can probably guess. And then there were some practical elements as well in terms of financial security, making sure I was kinda set up and had that comfort to be able to make the transition from the regular corporate salary to being self employed and and paying myself. So it took me probably a little longer than I had expected. But now I look back, I'm grateful for the journey and how long it did take it.
Anna Campbell [00:02:48]:
I learned a huge amount along the way.
Mahara Wayman [00:02:50]:
Alright. Share some of those juicy learnings with us because when you say mindset, we all have our particular thoughts on what you mean by that. But for you, what was the biggest hurdle regarding your mindset that you had to navigate?
Anna Campbell [00:03:03]:
Yeah. I think it's, it's funny. I see it with my own clients. It was one of the I reached this moment where I was like, I should probably take my own advice now. I think some of the mindset barriers existed around being enough, smart enough, qualified enough, to will it be taken serious enough? All of these types of sense of, being enough to be a solopreneur, entrepreneur, have my own business. It just existed in a world that was so different to everything I've been brought up in. My parents are teachers. No one in my family has ever, set up a business or gone off and done their own thing.
Anna Campbell [00:03:46]:
So it's a brand new environment to me, and there was a lot of, fear there around being kinda qualified, being enough, and, confidence as well, I guess. I kinda knew I would succeed, but it felt safe to do it part time as a side hustle with the corporate job as well and kinda test the waters but still have that security as well. So I think those are some of the main main mindset, blocks for me.
Mahara Wayman [00:04:14]:
Okay. Just for context, can you think back to a time before the idea of reclaim your lane? Maybe even before you got into the your most recent corporate role when you really struggled with your mindset.
Anna Campbell [00:04:29]:
Yes. I can. I've tended to work in quite male dominated environments, and I think throughout my career, that has also had a little bit of a impact on my confidence in those quite masculine settings. So I can probably recall quite a few instances where mindset and confidence were tested, let's say.
Mahara Wayman [00:04:53]:
So let me ask you this. That younger version of you, can you look back on her and say, yeah. You know what? She was actually badass then too. Tell us why.
Anna Campbell [00:05:04]:
Yeah. Do you know what? I think when I look back, there's a lesson in everything, and everything has played its part, and everything has come at the right time. I think in the moment, you kind of feel impatient, and why isn't this happening sooner, or why don't I know this already? Why aren't I there? You look at other people, and there's comparison. But actually, Minnie badass me. However, many years ago, early on in my career, she had a part to play in kind of who I've who I've become today. So I think, do you know what? She passed me. She showed up anyway, despite some of the challenges, despite some of the tricky environments, despite some of the doubt, you know, verbally communicated by some people, you know, about that being enough. Are you smart enough? All those sorts of things.
Anna Campbell [00:05:58]:
Again, in those masculine environments, it was often, whether it was said or whether it was, what's the word I'm looking for? Implied. Thank you. I showed up anyway, and I did my thing. And I think that has that has massively benefited who I've become today.
Mahara Wayman [00:06:18]:
I love the fact that you relate you refer to your younger self as mini me because that that girl was needed. Like, she she played her part in getting where you are today. So let's talk about today.
Anna Campbell [00:06:30]:
Mhmm.
Mahara Wayman [00:06:31]:
Alright. So is the work that you're doing today similar to what you did in the corporate world, or is it vastly different?
Anna Campbell [00:06:40]:
It's I'd say it's evolved. So when I was, in the corporate world, I was a head of people and culture partnering. And so there's always been a thread of wanting to help people succeed in their careers to develop personally and professionally. So that love has still exists. It's just manifested now in a way that feels good to me and in a way that I think I can help people most. You know, in the corporate world, you've got I mean, there's always stuff, but I've almost selected the bits that I love and enjoy the most and have created a business around it. And I feel that's such a privilege and such a amazing position to be in. So what I'm doing now is still the one to one coaching, helping people that feel at a career crossroads, are feeling uncertain on what they want next, perhaps lacking confidence and procrastinating on taking action for change in their career.
Anna Campbell [00:07:36]:
But also now it's evolved to supporting, founders in their businesses. How can I support them, get the most out of their people and teams, businesses, you know, creating the environments where people can succeed in their careers, but organisations also succeed? So how do we get organisational performance through elevating people performance? So it all ties together, quite nicely. So it's a real mix in part of things I'm doing and the types of people I'm working with. But it's it's a good variety. I'm enjoying it.
Mahara Wayman [00:08:10]:
And it's so needed. I come from the corporate world, and I can look back on it with mixed feelings, but I can absolutely see the need for this. You know? HR needs to be more than just HR that as we today, I think. So kudos for bringing something to the world that corporate world needs so badly. I'm curious, though. What's the biggest thing you've learned about yourself in this incarnation of badassery?
Anna Campbell [00:08:36]:
Oh, what's the biggest thing I've learned about myself? The biggest thing I've learned about myself or the biggest thing I've learned I have to do is it sounds like a really cliche thing of feel the fear and do it anyway. I think when you're doing it on your own, there's nowhere to hide. You can't kinda sit back for the day and just hope the rest of the team picks something up or, you know, coast in any way. You really have to keep showing up even when it feels uncomfortable. And I think and I'm sure you see this with your clients as well. The magic and the good stuff happens outside of your comfort zone. It feels you feel the friction and you feel the dread and what will people think of me, will it go well, will it fail, but do it anyway. And you've been a great help to me, Mahara, with your encouragement as well.
Anna Campbell [00:09:30]:
Just do the thing. Just do it. You know? So, yeah, that's probably been a huge learning to kind of really step into that badass kind of mindset, and a million and one other learnings, along the way as well. You know, as a business owner as well, there's just so much every day is learning.
Mahara Wayman [00:09:48]:
It never ends. It never ends. What are you most surprised about though now that you've stepped into solopreneurship?
Anna Campbell [00:09:54]:
Do you know what I'm really pleasantly surprised about? How much people wanna help. So I have been on the end of amazing people in my network and women in my network who are speaking up about me in other rooms. You know, people like yourself, just people that I haven't worked with for years who were saying, yeah. Let's hop hop on a call. Let's see how we can help or how we can work together. And I think there's that, asking for help. There's a message in there that it's about not kind of carrying things on your own or, you know, having things spin around in your own mind. And I'm I'm wondering if you have this with your clients as well, where it's like, get out of your own head, ask for help.
Anna Campbell [00:10:38]:
You know?
Mahara Wayman [00:10:39]:
You bring up a really good point. I know with some of my clients, and I had this as well for a little bit, this idea that badasses do things on their own. Right? I'm king of the castle, and I'm gonna get my shit done the way you know, it's me. It's me. It's me. But truthfully, life is a team sport, and badasses learn to ask for help. They learn to become strategic in who they ask for help for or who they connect with. And, you know, it's yeah.
Mahara Wayman [00:11:08]:
It's a great it's a great example that when we learn to ask for help, the the universe just makes things happen. Right? It's almost like putting in your order. This is what I need help with. I don't know where to get it, but and then the next day you meet someone. Right? Or somebody answers a post or you you something comes up in a book. Like, there's always messages and support for us if we look for it and ask for it. A lot of my experience has been not knowing where to go for the help or not know what help I need. Right? Because sometimes the overwhelm this is I'm speaking totally for myself or the overwhelm of something so new, polarizes not polarized, but freezes me.
Mahara Wayman [00:11:50]:
And I'm like, I don't even know. I'm I'm overloaded with information. You know, Google everything. Right? Check out this poll about that person. So I know that information overload can really slow us down in our businesses. Yeah. But what did you do specifically? Can you remember to just like, did you talk to yourself, give yourself a little talking to? Did you refer back to some of the work that you've done with your own coaches and your own support?
Anna Campbell [00:12:17]:
Yeah. Good question. And I think before I go into what I maybe did, I think we need to normalize small steps, but consistency in those because people are often like, you know, take the big leap, jump, do it, quit the job, and that's scary. Right? That's a massive thing to do. Have a plan in place, take the small steps. I mean, it took me over three years to transition fully out of my corporate job. I did it slowly. I went part time, and then eventually, I kind of left fully.
Anna Campbell [00:12:50]:
But so often you don't hear that, online. Everyone's, you know, promoting these big, I took the leap, and now I'm earning this. And, you know, behind the scenes and the reality is that there can be a, normalizing these kind of small but intentional steps to take to where you wanna get to. So I think for me, the first thing was getting clear on what it is that I wanted, that clarity. And I know you share a lot about clarity as well. If you don't know where you're going, you're just gonna go around in circles. So you gotta have a vision for where it is you wanna be. What's the kind of life you wanna have? What's the kind of career that is gonna support that life that you want? So I spent a lot of time doing self reflection, getting that kind of clarity as to where I wanted to go.
Anna Campbell [00:13:37]:
And then I actually worked with a coach as well to understand the steps that I needed to take, and also to keep me accountable because, you know, if you again, if you're just accountable to yourself, it's easy to not show up at times or to, oh, I'll do that next week. But when you're meeting a coach, they kinda keep you accountable, and they hold up the mirror, and they ask you challenging questions. So, you know, I've sometimes that feels like a big investment, especially when you're a newer business, but it's always been worthwhile. I've found someone's kinda help and coach and guide you through the through the steps.
Mahara Wayman [00:14:15]:
Thing that I found too was I could con myself into thinking I was being productive because I was so busy. Right? Yeah. You can lose yourself in the busy work and then, you know, four weeks later, you're like, what have I done? Absolutely nothing. My that happened. My husband asked me once when I was first starting this because he hadn't seen me for weeks because I was at the you know, on my laptop just creating and writing and like, how's it going? I'm like, great. It's like, what have you been doing? I'm like, working. He's like, well, what did you do? I'm like, oh, okay. And I had nothing to show to it.
Mahara Wayman [00:14:45]:
I'm like, oh, god. Yeah. So do you have any clients? I'm like, you're to ask me that.
Anna Campbell [00:14:51]:
Yeah. Do you know? I think I think that's one of the learnings in, you know, moving from corporate world to business, a full time business owner or anything, whoever whatever you're doing, is to get clear on your vision, what it is you want, and then identify the this sounds really jargony, but the needle movers. What is the one thing I'm gonna do this week that is gonna get me closer to that vision? How am I gonna move the needle and get closer? So I've had to learn to recognize when I'm doing the busy work, you know, feeling productive, color coding my calendar, verse when is the actual when am I moving the needle? When am I focusing on the right things? And they've they've been hard lessons as well, where I realize I haven't perhaps been focusing on the right things. So, yeah, that would be something I would suggest as part of that, getting focused and clear on what it is you wanna be doing to get close to that end goal.
Mahara Wayman [00:15:49]:
So what has been, you know, some of the the stepping stones that you could just lay out for us? Because I think some people listening today may you've just given them permission to slow down, which is awesome. But can you describe some of your stepping stones? Just give us an example of what that meant.
Anna Campbell [00:16:08]:
Yeah. Of course. So I think, you know, for me, I went part time. I dropped just one day in the corporate world, and I felt so terrified to ask for that. And, actually, once I did, my boss at the time was so incredibly supportive because the alternative is that I might have had to, you know, look for another job that could allow me to do the side hustle piece. So get clear on what you need and what you need from from whom and ask the question, you know, I'm looking to go four days a week. This is why. Is this something the business can support me in doing? So get clear on what you need, the time and space you need to be able to do the thing you wanna do and ask the questions that might feel difficult.
Anna Campbell [00:16:52]:
But I bet you when you ask them, they won't feel as hard as you actually think. And you may get a fantastic result as I did. So we can talk ourselves out of action so often, but, you know, do it. So get clear on the steps you wanna take. Take the bold action. I think the other thing is the financial piece. You know? We're not here. Neither of us are saying, you know, quit the job without a plan.
Anna Campbell [00:17:16]:
You know? It doesn't sound very doesn't sound very sexy, does it, about have a plan. Have a financial plan. But it's important because if you are gonna be your best self and be creative and, you know, bring your magic into the world, then you have to have some of the foundations in place and a plan. You know, being able to pay the bills and the mortgage and all those things, having those in place. So I got really clear on all the money, all my kind of money mindset where I have a tendency to avoid the money, looking at money. So I had to face getting really clear on the financial, steps on that as well. So that that was important. So, yeah, the practical element, the mindset piece as well, the confidence, but it really is getting that vision clear, plan in place, what's some of the barriers for me practically and mindset wise, and I'm working through those.
Anna Campbell [00:18:09]:
So I can see in my in my head, there's kind of stages I've gone through of clarity, overcoming barriers, taking action. And it's just that constant cycle of those kind of stages, I guess.
Mahara Wayman [00:18:22]:
And is that what you're seeing with your clients? Is that typically the same, process that you're seeing works well for your clients, or is there something that you're noticing that's a little bit different than that?
Anna Campbell [00:18:34]:
Yeah. I think I think so. I think it's, and I think this is why I connect with my clients so well because I've been there. I've been in their shoes. I feel so strongly that, niggling feeling that something needs to change and, not knowing what to do next. So, yeah, I see that those stages as as being very similar. I think another part of it, and we spoke about this last time, is allowing yourself the space to think and write down everything that's going around in your mind. Because so often we can avoid that niggling feeling.
Anna Campbell [00:19:13]:
But if we leave it unaddressed, years go by is the truth. And I've seen so many people beat themselves up for saying, I wish I'd done this sooner. You know? So,
Mahara Wayman [00:19:23]:
why do you so hard to listen to the niggles? I just came up with someone else, another podcast guest recently. This I I think her parting words were listen to the niggle for God's sakes. It's like it's snowing your why do you think it's so hard for us in general to do that?
Anna Campbell [00:19:41]:
I think it's uncomfortable. I think it's probably telling you to do something that feels against the norm, that feels against what maybe society has told you is the right thing to do. You know, society says, don't leave the stable job. You know? Parents tell you, you know, certain generations, you know, you might be crazy to do that. I think there's these societal expectations and, whether you recognize them or not, things linger there that you feel like, who am I to who am I to be that person to set up my own business? You know? You know, I should be doing this, that kind of sense of, what you could be doing versus what you feel you should be doing. So it's this internal conflict of everything you've been brought up to believe you you should do in your career and in your life. And where there's a clash, it feels uncomfortable, so you bury it and ignore it. But you and I both know it always finds its way to the surface in some way.
Mahara Wayman [00:20:43]:
It always comes up to the surface. So would you say then currently that you work mindset mostly with your clients, or is it a combination of the practicality as you mentioned earlier coupled with the mindset work or the inner work as some people call it?
Anna Campbell [00:20:58]:
It really is both. It's and I feel this is where I'm lucky to have had my experience in big corporates, in HR, recognising how to succeed in that environment. When I work with clients who do a lot of, inner work, you know, who are they right now? Often, I work with people who have been in their careers, you know, fifteen, ten plus years, and I've reached a point of, like, ugh, do I want this forever? What do I want next? So we need to do a reset. Who am I? What are my values? What do I stand for? You know, the foundations of everything. Getting clear on kind of what some of their barriers might be, what's stopping them take action. And then when we get to the action plan piece of, okay, what does this look like now? We've done the great work. You know, this is all lovely, but how are we now moving it into an action plan? And that can be anything from helping them with job search strategies and interviews, whether that's internal or external kind of jobs. It's kinda crafting a plan to develop within their role in an organisation.
Anna Campbell [00:22:02]:
Lots of different things. It's all individual. It's, always bespoke to that person and and their own needs. But so, yeah, to answer your question sorry. I went a bit long there. It's mindset, and it's practical as well.
Mahara Wayman [00:22:17]:
There you go. So, so good. And you've been delving into some new areas recently, which by time this podcast comes out, maybe you've done some more. But tell us about some of the exciting things that you've done recently.
Anna Campbell [00:22:31]:
So I've been doing a lot of, events, which has been really fun. Online events, in person events, I actually hosted my first event earlier in the year, which was great. And I would just you know, I don't know if you find this. I think online is great. You know, the pandemic, we realized we can still connect, and you and I connect often, and we're at this you know, worlds apart from each other, you know, geographically. But you cannot be meeting people in person, and the energy you get in a room, I love it. And I think, you know, audiences love it. Coming together with like minded people, to discuss things, to share experiences.
Anna Campbell [00:23:13]:
And so I've loved running events, loved doing workshops, you know, putting on a nice pink red jacket and getting on stage and all those things, which I never thought I'd love, but I have loved. Yeah. It's just you get to show your full self, and it's been it's been scary, but it's been really good fun.
Mahara Wayman [00:23:32]:
So badass to be able
Anna Campbell [00:23:34]:
to recognize
Mahara Wayman [00:23:36]:
that it's okay to step outside of your comfort zone and shine. And it's one of the things that, you know, you and I have noticed with clients, and I know we've noticed it with ourselves is that, wow. We don't often see ourselves the way that the world sees us. And when we are in person, if we're open to it, that recognition is reflected back, and it's a high. Right? You just it just feels great to be part of that edge regardless of what you're talking about. Because you and I talk about different things when we go out and we're, you know Yeah. Networking or just chatting. But there is an energy that comes with, to your point, like minded people hanging out.
Mahara Wayman [00:24:18]:
Or even if they're not they're just open minded to Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's it's really cool energy. So lots of badass things that you're doing. Number one, you were very strategic in moving from corporate to solopreneur. You did say it took over three years, almost four years to to do that, but it worked for you because you were systematic, and you were very clear. Clarity is everything, guys.
Mahara Wayman [00:24:42]:
You know I talk about that all the time. Very clear on what you wanted. And I think this is important because many times, we clients as well as this is what I did. When I said what I wanted, I wasn't connecting that want to a feeling. I like, we're going back years ago. I wanted to be I wanted to be thin and happy, or I wanted to be a certain size, or I wanted to have a certain job title. But I didn't necessarily understand that what I really wanted was security and freedom and ease, you know, all of those things. So getting really clear on how you want to show up in the world, how you want to feel in the world, and how you want people to see you in the world.
Mahara Wayman [00:25:29]:
Because there may be something better than just that career title. We it may you may not find that within that career title. It may be something else that comes up along the way. I think I went off track a little bit here as well, but, I think you actually were able to pinpoint that for yourself early on. And now Reclaim Your Lane is up and running total solo. It's only been, what, four months?
Anna Campbell [00:25:54]:
Yeah. Four months since I left the corporate job full time. So, yeah, again, every day is a learning day. Some days, I'm like, oh my god. This is nuts. And other days, I'm like, on a high elation. And it I think it's all par for the course. Right? There's the ups and the downs, but what it's given me is flexibility in my day.
Anna Campbell [00:26:18]:
You know, I've defined what an what a great day would look like for me. It's allowed me to spend more time with my family and husband, and I get variety. I get to use my creativity. It's just like, I feel so lucky. And if anyone else is kind of thinking about making that shift from corporate world, maybe side hustle into full time gig, do it. Get clear. Get the plan in place. Ask for help.
Anna Campbell [00:26:49]:
You know, find someone that's doing something that you wanna do. Put a coffee in with them even if they're famous people, whatever, you know, reach out. People always love to talk about themselves and their own journeys, you know, listen to podcasts like this, you know, just be a sponge, absorb it all, and then just go for it is what I would say.
Mahara Wayman [00:27:08]:
Such great advice. How could people reach out to you, Anna?
Anna Campbell [00:27:12]:
People can find me on Instagram. So at reclaim underscore your underscore lane, or I'm on LinkedIn. I'm starting to hang out a bit on LinkedIn a bit more now, Mahara. Anna Campbell. So you can find me on LinkedIn.
Mahara Wayman [00:27:27]:
It's So so good. And do you only do one on ones, or do you do you offer presentations? What's your repertoire?
Anna Campbell [00:27:35]:
Yeah. So I do, one on ones for kind of three month periods. Those are people that really wanna make a change now in their career, but But I also offer some kind of power hour type of sessions if there's just something a particular thing you're struggling with, and working with corporates as well. So if in your business, you're recognising the need to have someone come in and inject a bit of energy into how careers are managed, you know, career planning and all those types of things, then online or in person workshops as well.
Mahara Wayman [00:28:04]:
So so good. Anna, congratulations on the move. I've watched you from afar. I've watched you from close-up. And I just wanna say you are a total badass, and here's to you. Folks, I hope you enjoyed this conversation with Anna Campbell from reclaim your lane. Very bravely moving towards her dreams one step at a time. Please reach out.
Mahara Wayman [00:28:26]:
Check the show notes. You'll see more about Anna there, and I will see you all next week on the art of badassery. Thanks again, Anna.
Anna Campbell [00:28:35]:
Thanks, Mara.
Mahara Wayman [00:28:42]:
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